I Never Did Trust Anybody
Not even now.
Yes, I have found a man who is more that I ever hoped for and yes, I
am ridiculously happy these days but truth be told, I live very
carefully most of the time. The age old thought habit driving the need
to be perfect is a tough one to overcome.
I am challenged this day to examine that position. Do I really
believe that no one is trustworthy? Where did that belief come from.
Hmmmm. Yes, there have been a few disappointments along the way. And
yes, a few people I thought were solid as the rock of Gibraltar had
feet of clay but in their humanity, weren’t their errors in judgment
right in line with who they were at the moment?
I have had my share of disappointments with people and with life in
general but looking back, I have to admit that even the worse of
scenarios all worked themselves out in time.
I wonder what trust looks like. I wonder if I can learn to perceive
it differently. If I allow that my past experiences were simply the
playing out of various circumstances as they happened and that life did
not have an agenda to harm me, perhaps I can reconsider my former
beliefs.
What if I could trust that life itself has a natural tendency to
balance out over time and that even the toughest of times end up fading
away and dissipating in the fogginess of memory and maturity. What if
trust is simply allowing life to be, a process of incredible diversity
and synchronicity. What if we are to trust the unfolding of time and
not the people populating that time.
If we are all in the same boat?.trying to make the best of the
circumstances surrounding us, maybe trusting the natural progression of
events is the only kind of trust that matters. It is nice to think that
a human being, especially a dearly loved one, will not error and hurt
us but alas, we all hurt someone we love eventually, no matter how hard
we try to be perfect partners.
If I learn to trust the natural unfolding of events, I see that
surprising things always appear when things look the darkest. Trusting
the process of life rather than the people in life feels safer to me.
After all , I am still here to write about it. I haven’t met the
insurmountable problem or person yet.
Maybe life is trustworthy in an of itself.
Hmmm?..
About the author
Spiritual Mentor and Mind Tuner is enjoying a dream come true
renaissance life.
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Tags: belief, circumstances, disappointments, diversity, experiences, feet of clay, habit, hmmmm, judgment, maturity, memory, natural progression, natural tendency, perfect partners, rock of gibraltar, scenarios, solid as the rock, synchronicity, truth
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